Monday, May 06 2013 23:54 EDTTrackback URL: http://www.fatsquirrel.org/bologs/veghead/trackback.php/1001
You're born, you do what you need to do, and then one day you wake up to discover you're 30; "The Wednesday of Your Life". I freaked out a bit on mine, and figured that the end was nigh. The day turned out to be really pretty enjoyable on reflection
, and I was given a valuable gift by an older friend; he said "your 30's are like your 20's, but you just don't give as much of a fuck". The same advice can, and should, be given to everyone at every age.
So despite recently turning 42, I'm no longer worried - but it's interesting to note the things that have
- Going out, getting pissed and "having a good time" now seems more like a threat than a good idea. Spending a weekend hacking, reading, watching films and spending time with my wife and the parrots is far more enjoyable on its own merit. OK red wine is currently a key part of the equation but I'm working on that.
- I'm older than the majority of my peers at work. Oddly, it can be quite comforting: with age comes experience, and I enjoy the occasional feeling of being sure that I know what I'm talking about. It's still very infrequent, but when it happens it's very satisfying.
- I used to think I was the same age as teens and people in their twenties. Now "people my age" ranges from 25 to 65. Anyone younger is a child. Anyone older is "a bit older".
- Worrying about being uncool is a thing of the past. It was always a bogus ideal, but now I relish it. There's a lot to waffle about here, but not now.
- A disposable income means that educational toys can be purchased without sacrifice or guilt to help keep my brain working, my childish spirit satisfied, and my skill-set increasing.
- The Internet: it's impossible for anyone with any vestige of curiosity to become bored now.